13 “Good Deeds” on Planes That Annoy Flight Attendants

Interior of airplane with passengers on seats and stewardess in uniform walking the aisle, serving people. Commercial economy flight service concept — Adobe Stock

We’ve all tried to be the “model passenger” at some point. But here’s the truth: not every polite gesture lands nicely in the skies. Flight attendants juggle safety, service, and sometimes stress. A few well-meaning habits actually make things more complicated for airline workers.

Here’s a look at 13 “helpful” things travelers do that flight attendants secretly dislike and the more brilliant moves that win real brownie points.

1. Acting Like the Rule Enforcer

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Calling out another passenger’s seatbelt or phone use feels like helping, but it puts you in a role you don’t need.

Do this instead: quietly tell the crew and let them handle it.

2. Playing Tetris With Overhead Bins

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Shifting other people’s luggage may seem efficient, but it creates chaos (and sometimes arguments).

Better choice: stash your bag quickly and leave the rearranging to the pros.

3. Grabbing a Flight Attendant’s Arm

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A gentle tap might feel polite, but it’s uncomfortable and intrusive.

Polite signal: hit the call button or wave them over.

4. Asking for a Refill the Size of a Lake

A young man filling his reusable bottle at an airport fountain — OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA

Filling a massive bottle drains limited onboard water.

Smarter tip: fill up before boarding or ask for small cups during service.