10 Destinations Where Tourists Should Be on Their Best Behavior

Fines, glares, and awkward stares—these are the hidden costs of being a clueless tourist. But what if you knew the unspoken rules before you even arrived? Traveling smarter isn’t just about booking the right flights or packing light; it’s about understanding the customs that locals hold dear.

These small yet powerful insights can mean the difference between blending in and standing out for the wrong reasons. We’ve seen just how transformative it is to respect local traditions. Locals notice—and appreciate—when travelers go the extra mile to embrace their way of life. These 10 tips will make you the kind of traveler people remember for all the right reasons.

1. Japan, Land of Politeness

Want a peaceful getaway? Then respect Japan’s golden rule: harmony over chaos. Japan is a masterclass in politeness, where silence in public spaces is golden, and queuing is practically an art form. Eating while walking? That’s a hard no. Instead, take your meals seated—it’s considered more respectful. 

Fun fact: the concept of “omotenashi” (selfless hospitality) shapes much of Japanese culture, so when in doubt, err on the side of politeness. Bow deeply, be punctual, and don’t forget to take off your shoes when entering someone’s home or temple.

2. Italy, Culinary Paradise

Love pasta? Show some respect for it—or risk being ‘that tourist.’ Italy is where food is sacred, and bad table manners? Blasphemy. Start with the basics: no cappuccinos after 11 AM (yes, it’s a thing) and always finish your meal—leftovers are frowned upon. 

When visiting landmarks, remember: Venice banned sitting in certain public spaces in 2019, and fines can hit €200. So, channel your inner local, take that espresso standing at the bar, and embrace the Italian way of life.

3. India, Spiritual Melting Pot

Want good karma? Mind your manners in India’s spiritual hubs. India is a sensory overload in the best way, but its customs might catch you off guard. Visiting a temple? Cover up. Offering money to a beggar? Use your right hand—it’s considered pure. 

Tip: Cows have right of way everywhere, so stay patient and avoid honking. Respect is key in India’s many sacred spaces, so keep a shawl handy and take your shoes off before entering.

4. Thailand, Temple Haven

If you love a good selfie, know the rules before snapping in Thailand. Thailand might be Instagram heaven, but some photos are strictly off-limits. Buddha statues, for instance, aren’t for decoration, and posing provocatively with one is a major no-no. 

While temple-hopping, dress modestly—think long skirts and covered shoulders. And whatever you do, don’t touch anyone’s head or point the soles of your feet at them; it’s considered deeply disrespectful in Thai culture.